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5 Really Great Reasons NOT to Join Another Group: Networking Success Tips

Did you drink the Koolaid? Are you convinced that just by having a group logo or name attached to your online profile on Linkedin or Facebook that you are somehow more desirable. Do you believe this will boost your visibility and credibility? GET OVER IT. The reality is that the only way group membership makes any difference is when you actually get involved. That’s right, you have to participate. It is by sharing your expertise, contributing your experience, and actively engaging in discussions that you will actually go farther. Sorry if this shatters your illusions.  Racking up a whole bunch of group memberships on LinkedIn really isn’t going to help your net worth.

So take a look here at 5 Really Great Reasons NOT to Join Another Group, oh and this applies to live as well as virtual or offline as well as online!

#1 Don’t join a group just because you are invited. You really need to explore any group you are invited to thoroughly and determine if you will provide value to the group and if it will provide value to you. When you can’t answer both questions in the affirmative, don’t join. Many people invite their entire list of contacts just to build numbers and look popular, they don’t drive engagement, focus, or value. In fact, it was Groucho Marx, the great comedian who once said “I don’t care to belong to any club that will have me as a member.” (Group and club in this case are synonymous.)

#2 Don’t join a group just because it is related to your industry. There are a million and one groups out there, many of them are dead as in no conversations or discussions active. In fact, many haven’t seen any activity in months. And in other cases the only activity is spammers or sales pitches (hmm is there a difference between those two?)

#3 Don’t join a group because all of your peers are in it. Really? So if they all jumped off a cliff would you go too? This gets back to my follow the flock and you’ll end up a lamb chop principle. Be different, be unique, be yourself, don’t be like everyone else. How incredibly boring. If this is a group you know, like, trust and enjoy then by all means go for it. But just because it is your peers doesn’t make it worth joining.

Don’t Join Him!

#4 Don’t join a group because they put you in it. This happens all the time on Facebook and is incredibly annoying and can clutter your email like no one’s business. It seems there is a rampant disregard for choice and many who open up groups, just arbitrarily put their friends and colleagues in them. And we stay because we don’t want to offend them. That’s nuts, get out if it isn’t for you. Oh and if you don’t want to get the emails, it may well not be for you.

#5 Don’t join a group because you want to belong. I’ll confess I’ve done this a time or two and it never works well. It is the WRONG reason to join a group. The only reason to join is because you feel it will be of benefit to the group members and to yourself, not for any other reason.  In fact, I know that in internet marketing a ton of people join high end groups (masquerading as coaching programs) because they want to belong. I’ve researched this with members, it’s shockingly true.

Here is the bottom line. Random activity of any kind achieves random results. In order to make joining groups on Linkedin, Facebook and other networks, both online and offline, worthwhile, you have to get involved. When you don’t have time for the group or lack interest, don’t join it. There is no benefit in empty belonging particularly if it is going to cost you money.

And often you would be better served by starting your very own group in one of these places and leading it in a manner that truly serves and supports your success. Then you get to control who joins and who doesn’t and show an active commitment to the value produced.

As always, I love to hear your thoughts. Find me on Facebook, Linkedin and Twitter and make sure your invite is personal.

What are your favorite groups? What networks?

Filed Under: Best Business Practices, Business Development, Facebook Marketing, LinkedIn Marketing, Marketing Strategies, Referral Marketing, Social Media Marketing, Success Habits, Twitter Marketing Tagged With: Business Development, Business Success, Business Tips, Lead Generation, Networking, Social networking, Success Habits, Success Tips

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  1. Nanette Saylor says

    June 5, 2012 at 9:44 am

    Thanks for this great reminder and quick support sheet here, Melissa. I love that you’ve made it so easy for us to put the next opportunity through this little self-check: am I just saying yes without really considering the value, and even more importantly, why?

    I’m always surprised by how easy it is for me to fall back into old patterns of always being the nice gal who’s agreeable and cooperative.

    And though I’ll never give up being warm, friendly, respectful and compassionate toward others, I do have to remember to check in to stay in alignment with what’s best for me first.

    With deep appreciation, I wish you well-
    Nanette

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    • Melissa Galt says

      June 5, 2012 at 2:45 pm

      Thanks Nanette,

      Yes, it is all too easy for all of us to fall back into old patterns, particularly the people pleasing ones! :).

      Glad this is a welcome reminder.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  2. Devine Decorating says

    June 5, 2012 at 12:40 pm

    Excellent points… especially when you work in a creative industry!

    Reply
    • Melissa Galt says

      June 5, 2012 at 2:46 pm

      Yes, it is particularly relevant to those of us who chase bright shiny opportunities! Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  3. Yitz Finch` says

    June 5, 2012 at 12:59 pm

    Howdy Melissa,

    With regards to #3 Don’t Join a Group of Peers – I don’t join groups of peers, mostly because I’m not looking to network with peers. I’m looking to connect with interior designers and architects, primarily. That’s why I participate in #IntDesignerChat, and that’s how I was so fortunate to meet YOU! B-)

    Yitz

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    • Melissa Galt says

      June 5, 2012 at 2:47 pm

      Yitz,

      You got it right, but have you noticed that inside #intdesignerchat are all designers, peers to one another? Except, of course, for the savvy and talented providers like you!

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
    • Marlys Arnold says

      June 9, 2012 at 12:45 pm

      That’s exactly why I’ve never chosen to join the National Speakers Assn., although I’ve been invited many times. Instead, I’ve invested my time & money into associations of meeting planners who could hire me! Thanks for all the reminders, Melissa!

      Reply
  4. Lynn Dorman, PhD says

    June 5, 2012 at 2:31 pm

    It must be zeitgeist!

    I have been busy cleaning email lists I am on [never yours of course,] various FB and LinkedIn groups, and some activities in “real” life.

    Your points will be my checklist for future requests!
    Thank you.

    Lynn

    Reply
    • Melissa Galt says

      June 5, 2012 at 2:47 pm

      Glad to hear it Lynn!

      Believe me I am in the midst of cleaning out myself and groups is a biggie!

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  5. Pete Evans says

    June 6, 2012 at 6:42 am

    Melissa,

    Great points. I have recently been delcuttering my groups on LinkedIn and Facebook. I also took a strategic decision to spend less time on face to face networking groups. It has had a dramatic impact on my business and productivity.

    Pete

    Reply
    • Melissa Galt says

      June 6, 2012 at 10:20 am

      Thanks Pete,

      Intrigued to know that reducing your face to face has improved business and your productivity.

      I think it is all about being selective and finding the right networks for you.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  6. Jim says

    June 7, 2012 at 1:15 am

    Great post! I love your line, “Random activity of any kind achieves random results.” The best networking always has a strategy and a plan toward meaningful results.

    Reply
    • Melissa Galt says

      June 8, 2012 at 1:14 pm

      Thanks Jim,

      Awesome to hear from you and glad it resonated.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  7. Johnell says

    June 9, 2012 at 10:37 am

    Great points Melissa

    My favorite group is eWomenNetwork. I have attended a lot of networking events and belonged to on-line groups and its important to find ones that you really connect and fit with.

    Your comment “The reality is that the only way group membership makes any difference is when you actually get involved” is right on. You value you get out of a group is very closely connected to what you give, so find a group that is aligned with your values and the way you do business. Thanks for sharing – Johnell

    Reply
  8. Jana says

    June 9, 2012 at 10:51 am

    Thanks Melissa I have been unsubcribing to alot of group. They are not a bad thing for who it is for, but just not my thing. It can become overwhelming. Right now I am in the process of finding what it is I am truly purposed to do. I don’t need all the clutter. Be blessed 🙂 Now how do I add my picture to this post, LOL 🙂

    Reply
    • Melissa Galt says

      June 11, 2012 at 7:36 am

      Johnell,

      Glad you have found a network that works for you!

      Always great to hear from you.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  9. Charlene Christiano says

    June 11, 2012 at 2:24 pm

    Great timing of this pertinent post. There are a few LinkedIn groups I rarely participate in and plan to disconnect from since I don’t the time to actively participate and build the relationships within these groups.

    As social media continues to grow, we all have to discern which groups will serve our highest purpose, both personally and professionally.

    Thank you for this time saving information.

    Reply
  10. Megan says

    December 22, 2014 at 8:39 am

    Very informative article with some great tips and advice. Thanks for sharing!

    Reply
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