Often I catch myself and more often others talking about “if” something occurs as if they are waiting and not in control of it. There is very little we aren’t truly in control of, though few of us are willing to accept that responsibility. Make a conscious effort to change your language replacing “if” with “when” as truly it is just a matter of taking the appropriate action to get where you intend to go.It could be a project or client you are going after, “when” supplies the necessary intent and action. Or a desire to lose ten pounds; it is all up to you. It could be the vacation getaway you want or the soul mate you long to find. Big dreams require significant action, skip the “if,” lose your hesitation. Abandon your doubt; it is the betrayer of your dreams. Applying a “when” to any dream makes it possible and will spur you to create actionable steps to make it reality.
If in doubt, check out the mind bending movie What the Bleep Do We Know. It never really got the attention it deserved, eclipsed by The Secret. The reality is that all that we want most, all that we desire and deserve is right here for us. Our abundance is not in question; it is not “if” but instead it is about aligning ourselves with it and “when” we do that, our reality will match our dreams.
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