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Marketing Failure: Are you UNSELLING yourself?

I had a very interesting experience recently. I was looking for a graphic designer to help me with a new website. The gal I wanted to work with was unavailable and she referred me to three other providers. I checked each one’s website and decided to talk with one specifically. I liked his portfolio and his transparency in his values evident on his site.

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We had a call of about an hour and really hit it off and I was looking for a proposal. At this point, I was already sold and simply needed to make sure the numbers meshed with what I had planned to invest (notice I don’t budget ever, it is all about planned investment because it has a return on it!)

He sent me a sequence of three emails. The first two shared more of his work and were entirely unnecessary and I hadn’t requested them. This annoyed me because it indicated he wasn’t paying attention to my need for a quote. The last email had unedited chunks of other client’s quotes but nothing customized for my project.

Then it got even more interesting because he sent a long email that was loaded with “i” instead of proper “I” and spelling mistakes. I’m kind of an English grammar nut (uh oh, this is where you pick apart all of my errors and send them to me or comment on them) and this indicated a serious lack of attention to detail and actually made me physically cringe. Not a good sign. He was unselling me outrageously!

In fact, at this point I was so taken aback that I got back  in touch with the original talent I wanted to work with and found that if I waited an additional week or two she would be available. I decided to wait.

When I let the graphic designer know that it wasn’t his talent that was in question, but in fact his lack of attention to detail, he suggested I was a “tire kicker.” I reminded him that I had been largely sold on working with him until he unsold himself with additional samples of work not requested, failure to quote my project specifically, and emails laden with grammar errors and spelling challenges. Enough, I’m working with a very talented individual now and will reveal the results soon.

The lesson here is about listening to what your prospect (or client) is really looking for. Deliver to their specifications  and quench your desire to overload them with too much information or inaccurate or inappropriate information (like other people’s quotes.) There is never a sure thing in business unless money has traded hands and a contract has been signed. Speaking on the phone or in email demands the same level of professional service that you apply to every other area of your business.

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Three Simple Actions to Succeed By in Your Business, Big or Small:

LISTEN (to what the prospect/client really wants and needs)

DELIVER (specifically what is requested)

CLOSE (by proving you listened and have attention to the details that count)

Oh, and in case you were thinking this was a generation gap, it wasn’t. The talent who I checked out and unsold himself is just three years younger than I am. This was not a case of a Millenial working with a Boomer. And even then, for me, that would not be an excuse.

Comment here and tell me when you might have UNSOLD a customer.  Or when someone UNSOLD you.

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  1. Sharon Coppede says

    July 11, 2012 at 9:51 pm

    So true! And I agree with you! I was a secretary in my first life and grammar is one of my pet peeves also. I like to cuddle first also…..

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    • Melissa Galt says

      July 12, 2012 at 9:01 am

      Sharon,

      You are a riot!! Great to hear from you always.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  2. Willena says

    July 12, 2012 at 8:32 am

    How in the world could the graphic designer thought you were a “tire kicker”? You were referred. You asked for a specific quote. You already have a web business. How does HE stay in business?

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    • Melissa Galt says

      July 12, 2012 at 9:02 am

      Willena,

      My point exactly! He does a lot of work just won’t be with me.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  3. Charlotte Henley Babb says

    July 12, 2012 at 8:38 am

    If this is the new design, I like it. It seems aimed to appeal to women with the stitched design contrasting with the graph paper and typefaces–right and left brain so to speak.

    As a teacher, I strive to get my students to understand that the mechanics of writing are part of the message, providing clarity and meaning.

    As as web designer, I struggle to figure out how to ask my internal customers what they want and to explain to them what I need from them.

    Reply
    • Melissa Galt says

      July 12, 2012 at 9:04 am

      Charlotte,

      This isn’t the new design and the “stitching” is a blueprint background, lol.

      Consider creating a checklist for your customers of what you need from them. It makes it easier for both of you.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  4. Leanne Fournier says

    July 12, 2012 at 9:12 am

    Great that you were able to identify the lack of fit with the first designer early on. We write and design many websites and have had the best success by listening to the client and providing a proposal that meets their stated needs but always takes it a step further in identifying opportunities they may not have thought of. We always like to add this extra value. The risk of this of course is that we may on occasion, “give it away” before a clients agreed to work with us or as you’ve suggested, alienate them by giving them things they haven’t asked for. What are your thoughts on that approach if it includes added value?

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    • Melissa Galt says

      July 12, 2012 at 9:30 am

      Leanne,

      Adding value is a far cry from dumping a lot of extra logos at a clients feet. The logos were from his portfolio, it had no bearing on my project at all, in fact I wasn’t looking for a logo!

      You are on target and doing it right, always :).

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  5. Louise says

    July 12, 2012 at 10:08 am

    Melissa…this is so true. I run into this too often right now. I’m involved in real estate investing and people tell me they are direct to a buyer for a deal I may have. Then when it comes to doing the paperwork, I find out they are many times removed and the deal falls through. And I’m sure you guessed, I stop working with those people.

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    • Melissa Galt says

      July 12, 2012 at 6:24 pm

      Louise,

      Real estate is rife with this. I had an incredibly poor convo just this week with an agent and actually hung up on him to stop the conversation (I don’t do that!)

      Honest professionals who know their stuff are rare to find.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  6. Nanette says

    July 12, 2012 at 10:07 am

    Yes, Melissa, I couldn’t agree with you more!
    Listening well is a specific skill set. What I find most annoying in situations like the one you’ve described is that, even after I’ve gone out of my way to be extremely clear about my needs, sometimes the service provided still doesn’t get it! From experience, I’ve even learned to lay out exactly how I prefer to be communicated with, and then spoon feed the service provider my “hot buttons”. I figure it’s worth my upfront time to get everything on the table so we avoid uncomfortable misunderstandings later. Yet, I still have experiences like yours every now and then.
    What I find most disheartening in your story is that even when you tried to provide this individual with some helpful guidance, he was still unable to open up to listen and accept your compassionate support.
    In the big picture, you’re story has made me wonder — is it really possible to teach listening skills to individuals who have none? And, what’s getting in their way?That’s for another blog post, I’m sure.
    Thanks for the reminder that using our time saving standard sales kits and proposal processes may actually be doing us a disservice when we don’t review them carefully based on the needs of each individual.
    Wishing you well–
    Nanette

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    • Melissa Galt says

      July 12, 2012 at 6:26 pm

      Thanks Nanette,

      Yes, listening can be taught. In fact, I’m betting it is the core of most sales trainings, certainly any I have provided.

      It is amazing how a person’s history and how they buy can get in the way of a successful sale.

      You are very generous with your upfront time. I’m not quite that patient.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  7. Lisa Braithwaite says

    July 12, 2012 at 12:04 pm

    Melissa, I see businesses “unselling” themselves all over the place. If an individual or company can’t pay attention to detail in their own marketing and proposals, how will they be able to pay attention to detail when they work on my project?

    Here’s a blog post I wrote with a recreated image of a handyman truck I had seen that day (I didn’t get a picture, so had to do my best to show what I had seen). http://coachlisab.blogspot.com/2011/11/would-you-hire-this-handyman.html.

    Who hires this guy?

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    • MamaRed says

      July 12, 2012 at 2:53 pm

      Excellent points Lisa!

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    • Melissa Galt says

      July 12, 2012 at 6:19 pm

      Well done Lisa!

      No, I wouldn’t hire him, yikes.

      Yes, it is surprising how prevalent this is.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  8. MamaRed says

    July 12, 2012 at 2:52 pm

    To my embarrassment, I got so excited the other day I did this (although, I hope, not to this degree). My husband calls it “talking yourself out of the sale” ‘cuz I’m learning to talk less and listen more.

    Your points are so on track and so appreciated. Thanks for the great reminder.

    Many blessings
    MamaRed

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    • Melissa Galt says

      July 12, 2012 at 6:22 pm

      MamaRed,

      Betting you can rectify the situation if not too far gone.

      Yes, it does come down to listening and paying attention.
      It can be easy to get carried away with enthusiasm and forget that our client has specific needs and wants, lol.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  9. Rick Steinbrenner says

    July 13, 2012 at 3:53 pm

    Melissa,

    This happened to me just recently – very similar response. Asked for information and quote. Got alot of other stuff not requested including talking down to me. The person was very surprised when they didn’t get the job. Reason why? didn’t listen very well plus it was obvious we couldn’t work well together. After all it’s more than just money, it’s relationships too.

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    • Melissa Galt says

      July 13, 2012 at 8:39 pm

      Hey Rick,

      It is absolutely relationships, in fact that is first and foremost, rarely price or even product.

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
  10. Robin says

    July 14, 2012 at 6:24 pm

    I think this kind of thing happens when the entrepreneur can’t identify his/her ideal customer and try to be all things to all people. That never works!

    My guess is that this guy was trying to cover up the fact that he didn’t know who his ideal customer was and was offering up everything as a way to find out.

    Best
    Robin

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    • Melissa Galt says

      July 20, 2012 at 7:33 pm

      Hey Robin,

      Not sure this was his challenge as I had already made it clear what I needed and wanted, but clearly he had a listening gap!

      Hugs, Melissa

      Reply
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