Why is it intimidating to be beautiful? No this isn’t coming from me, but from so many comments I seem to get, and I just don’t get it. It is ironic that I spent my twenties and half of my thirties as a size 14/16 and very unhappy. I made big changes in me, my attitudes, my limiting beliefs, my career choices, my location, and much more . . .
I am now in great shape, I feel terrific, I love my career, my life is on track with passion and purpose. Yet, since those many changes, I have been unable to meet a gentleman for a truly lasting romance. So many are either intimidated not only by my looks but by my visual success, and they are insecure and lack confidence and passion in their own lives. It honestly makes me sad to know that so many have so much going for them, but they don’t see it. I always look for the good in someone, the highlights, the unique gifts they offer, but it seems that others look only at what they might lack, not what they might bring to the table. HMMMMM. MG
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At times, one’s success and or beauty can exacerbate their partners insecurity and or percieved lack of success which can perpetuate resentment.
Finding the ideal partner is difficult if you are NOT willing to compromise. Those that are intimidated by success and beauty are not suitable for you. He is out there……
Maybe you should do a little more soul searching- is it really your beauty and success that is intimidating them?
Are successful guys intimidated as well? Or is it just guys who feel they have less to offer?
Are you sure it is your looks and success that intimidates them?
Are equally successful guys intimidated as well or just the one that feel they have less to offer?